Hey everyone,
I (M) wanted some advice about something that happened recently with my girlfriend.
During our last time together, we were in the middle of foreplay (we usually take our time — I really enjoy using my hands and mouth on her). At one point she was lying on her back, and I was kneeling, using one hand fingering her and the other gently sustaining her head while she was giving me a bj and things got really intense.
Out of nowhere, she took me out of her mouth, started stroking me, and said something along the lines of: “You could finish on my face or on my tits if you want.”
This shocked me in the best way — she’s usually pretty traditional, so hearing her say that was incredibly hot and totally unexpected.
Now I can’t stop thinking about it.
I’d love to explore that with her again, but I don’t want to come across as crude or make her feel pressured. Ideally I’d like it to come up naturally, maybe by ending up in that same position again.
How can I bring this up again respectfully?What might make her genuinely enjoy the experience too? I guess the thing came because we were almost synced last time even unfortunately then we changed position and ended up in a missionary.
We’ll probably be intimate again tonight, so any tips on how to approach this will be helpful