Hello, i dont know if this is the right place to go but the rejection subreddits have a request to post feature and i dont have the time.
I(20M) recently asked a club mate (21F) to lunch and got one of those soft rejections that sound like a "maybe" but is actually a no. (i made a post on r/askmenrelationships and r/AskMenAdvice if you want to read the full context.) It has been hurting me alot for the past week or so, more than any other rejection ive had. Normally I just shrug it off because my confidence was already low so it didnt hurt but this time it hurts despite my low confidence.
i want to be angry with her but i know she has her plate full with school and work and i know that she is human just like me and has just as much of a right to say no as i do. however the more i think about that the angrier i get and the worse i feel. i really want her to feel bad like i do but she doesnt deserve that.
I feel like the way i feel is not normal or healthy, she did nothing wrong to me or my family, and am seeking advice for how to get other this quicker. any advice you guys can give?
Thanks for reading this post.