make or female answers;
about a year ago I asked a girl out and she rejected me, but we stayed friends. Ultimately, she chose another man over me, and played games with my heart for a few months, until I stopped giving in. (won’t go into details, but the games were evil, calculated, and methodical. All because I asked her out, and her boyfriend knew (this was before they were going out)
a few months ago, they broke up, and she’s slowely reentering my life in a very sneaky way, but I’m curious to know if it’s genuine this time. So I’m curious to know if any of ya’ll have ever caught feelings for someone you may have “played”.
fwiw, he lied to her, sold her a dream, cheated on her, and got her to ghost me entirely; even though we were just friends afterwards, and during this ”ghosting”, I was blessed – I bought a new car, started another job, started seeing more and more suits in the gym. made more friends, etc.