I (28M) and my partner (24F) have great times in bed but recently I feel I have been failing her. Her libido is significantly higher than mine. She has the desire to go more than once and even back to back. Needless to say we gave it a try last night. Back to back I was able to keep it up post orgasm, but as my cardio gave out and I took a second to readjust I went soft almost immediately. We then tried again an hour or so later, and the same thing happened, I gassed and went soft. I of course gave her pleasure in between but the feeling of being a failure didn’t really help my headspace and I probably did a poor job. She was very understanding, but especially after watching the movie Babygirl (wife cheats on husband with younger bull type movie) this feeling is only worse because I simply cannot keep up. It’s a mix of bad headspace by me just hoping I can keep up, and I’m not in the best shape but working on it
I wanted to ask for any advice from guys here that have no trouble going multiple rounds on how you get there. I used to be able to go go go when I was 20 but I was young and have long lost that ability and want to get it back