My wife and I have been married coming up on 12 years. We have 1 child. I am 42m and she 37f.
We have pretty regular sex. I personally feel we do pretty well for a 12 year married couple. We have sex up to 3-4 times a week. We do multiple positions, and in general the sex is very good. We are trying for another child, but this is proving difficult.
On occasion, in addition to our sex, I will indulge in a session of self love. I am am eager, so mu sessions go for a long while.
Every now and then when having sex with my wife, I'll have trouble finishing. I typically know when it is going to happen. We'll be having sex, and I will feel my orgasm starting to build, usually pretty quick in these cases. Wanting it to last longer, I'll attempt to hold it off. That'll be it window will close and I'll go floppy. Usually pulling out and masturbating doesn't work, and ill give up out pf frustration when it happens. My wife typically will have cum already in these cases.
These typically are one off cases, but recently we started having sex after thus happened, and it was the same thing. We tried 3 positions and I started going floppy. I pulled out and started masturbating, but it wouldn't get hard. I took a short break, we started making out again I got hard, and started having sex again. Thankfully I was able to cum this time.
What is happening to me? Am I getting older? Anyone else around my age and been married as long as I have experience this? What do you do about it. I'd rather not resort to medicine unless a last resort. I've suspended my self sessions until further notice.
Thanks, if anyone has any advice!