My husband has always finished inside me for years. I went off hormonal birth control and we recently started just pulling out to lessen the chance of pregnancy. We know this isn’t a reliable method but we already have a family and want to grow it so we are comfortable with the risk, just want to lessen the chances because pregnancy tends to happen very quickly otherwise. But it’s sort of ruining the flow because we aren’t used to it. Even if he’s close it takes him a long time to get back after pulling out, and I don’t really know what to do during. He also finds it less satisfactory overall and so do I. Any advice to make it more fun? We’ve considered condoms but haven’t used them in years and don’t really want to go back.