If your orgasms are mostly clitoral, what makes penetration enjoyable or worthwhile for you?
November 25, 2025
If your orgasms are mostly clitoral, what makes penetration enjoyable or worthwhile for you?
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It feels good and I love riding him and hearing him moan my name while he begs me to go slower because he’s about to bust 🤌
It feels good? Lol
Feels good, it’s hot, and I want him to bust a nut also lol
The g spot. If we can hit that and the clit at the same time it feels like I’m going to die in the best way possible.
It feels good. It feels intimate. It feels connected. Sometimes I’m so in love with my husband I want to crawl into his body. The closest I can come to that is letting him into mine.
Because sex isn’t only about my orgasm and it still feels amazing. There are plenty of ways to make it work… he can use his fingers, or I can use mine or a toy during penetration. Problem solved.
My fwb moans like crazy and likes to grab onto me really hard. Works everytime lolÂ
idk man, orgasms are MOSTLY clitoral but i’m part of the lucky crowd who can also orgasm from penetration
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The part of the clitoris that is visible is a small part. It has “legs” that can be stimulated through penetration.
It still feels good. And I like making him feel good too.
Depending on the angle you can rub the clit with your shaft. Multitask
The feeling of fullness is pleasurable to me. It’s not the same as an orgasm, it’s more like the relief you get when you stretch a tense muscle.
It still feels good. Like a massage almost.. but different obviously. Also instincts, and it’s fun..
I can’t satisfy the urge completely without it.
Connection with the person I’m having sex with. That’s the point of sex, in my opinion.
I like the intimacy of it. There’s something so special to me about having someone see me naked and touch me and be close to me, and penetration feels more special then anything else because it is the closest I can possibly be to my boyfriend. I really enjoy making him feel good any way I can, but penetration is my favourite way to do that because of how connected I feel to him.
Yeah my wife only orgasms from clitoral simultaneous with penetration. Clitoris is the main thing, but she needs both at the same time.
OP, in case penetration is not enjoyable for you, you are not alone. A lot of women don’t really enjoy being penetrated. Some women do. If it’s not working for you after lots of lube and sex with a person you really like, you might want to look into pelvic floor conditions or it might be time to focus more on the outside of the body with yourself and partners!
It feels good both for you and your partner 1, and 2 most of the clitoris is internal? The structure is a lot more extensive than anything outwardly visible (the glans). I encourage a Google deep dive. It’s fun stuff, so much of cis female anatomy we were never taught in school.
20 comments
It feels good and I love riding him and hearing him moan my name while he begs me to go slower because he’s about to bust 🤌
It feels good? Lol
Feels good, it’s hot, and I want him to bust a nut also lol
The g spot. If we can hit that and the clit at the same time it feels like I’m going to die in the best way possible.
It feels good. It feels intimate. It feels connected. Sometimes I’m so in love with my husband I want to crawl into his body. The closest I can come to that is letting him into mine.
Because sex isn’t only about my orgasm and it still feels amazing. There are plenty of ways to make it work… he can use his fingers, or I can use mine or a toy during penetration. Problem solved.
My fwb moans like crazy and likes to grab onto me really hard. Works everytime lolÂ
idk man, orgasms are MOSTLY clitoral but i’m part of the lucky crowd who can also orgasm from penetration
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The part of the clitoris that is visible is a small part. It has “legs” that can be stimulated through penetration.
It still feels good. And I like making him feel good too.
Depending on the angle you can rub the clit with your shaft. Multitask
The feeling of fullness is pleasurable to me. It’s not the same as an orgasm, it’s more like the relief you get when you stretch a tense muscle.
It still feels good. Like a massage almost.. but different obviously. Also instincts, and it’s fun..
I can’t satisfy the urge completely without it.
Connection with the person I’m having sex with. That’s the point of sex, in my opinion.
I like the intimacy of it. There’s something so special to me about having someone see me naked and touch me and be close to me, and penetration feels more special then anything else because it is the closest I can possibly be to my boyfriend. I really enjoy making him feel good any way I can, but penetration is my favourite way to do that because of how connected I feel to him.
Yeah my wife only orgasms from clitoral simultaneous with penetration. Clitoris is the main thing, but she needs both at the same time.
OP, in case penetration is not enjoyable for you, you are not alone. A lot of women don’t really enjoy being penetrated. Some women do. If it’s not working for you after lots of lube and sex with a person you really like, you might want to look into pelvic floor conditions or it might be time to focus more on the outside of the body with yourself and partners!
It feels good both for you and your partner 1, and 2 most of the clitoris is internal? The structure is a lot more extensive than anything outwardly visible (the glans). I encourage a Google deep dive. It’s fun stuff, so much of cis female anatomy we were never taught in school.
Nothing! It’s boring and painful to me.