My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is sweet, kind, loyal and faithful. He is genuinely my best friend. The problem is, we don’t have sex often. And by often he can go months without touching me (besides hugs and the affectionate rubs ), tongue kissing me, no oral at all. If I try to initiate sex or even just kissing, he shuts me down/rejects me however you want to put it. Yes I’ve talked to him. His reason, he is tired and it just isn’t on his mind and knowing what I know, I believe him. .No it was not like this when we first got together. About 8 months after we started dating the sex started to go out the window. Honestly the lack of sex doesn’t bother me because I know I only want sexual penetration from him and as long as I’m with him I’m happy. BUT I want a woman to have sex with, no more, no less, with no penetration.
How do I approach him about this. I refuse to do anything behind is back.