DH was given 2 tickets to an international sports game by a work client and decided to take his colleague, all fine. A few days later when I asked what time he would be leaving/getting home it turns out it isn't just game tickets but a 3 course sit down meal beforehand, a free bar, meet the players etc all expenses paid. So a full day out, which he knew but hadn't mentioned. I was a bit miffed and said it might've been nice if he'd considered asking me as it could've been a nice day out for us, we have a baby and I've had a hard week with 2 children, a break would have been welcomed. But never mind, you carry on etc.
So tonight I overheard him on the phone inviting his best friend, and asked him how many people were going. Suddenly he has multiple extra tickets and has invited others, still without asking me to go.
To be clear, I do not begrudge him a day out in the slightest, he works hard, he deserves it. But I've been drip fed information (that I've had to ask for on both occasions) and now it sounds like an all out party. Which would have been fine had he just told me upfront!
I hate dishonesty, and it seems like DH having information but choosing not to be transparent with it is becoming a common theme in our marriage. Is this just him being simply inconsiderate or something more?