My wife had an affair for 2 months. After confronting her, things began spiraling way out of control. Lies delusional behavior. We've been together 25 years so I know her better than anyone. The real her would never have done this to our family. She agreed to therapy. They diagnosed her with bipolar disorder andbshe even agreed to stop smoking weed and drinking alcohol, but because she had just gotten weed she wanted to smoke all that before she quit. Things have been better. We are nice for our son and i thought we were making some progress together. Shes been on med for mood stabilization ,abilify 5mg, but only 3 days. Yesterday she snuck and bought a bottle of tequila behind my back. I confronted her about it and she got so angry. The doctor said no drinking on this medication. I love her and i just want my wife back. What can I do?