two weeks ago i matched with my middle school crush on tinder. i’m not still upset about it, but it’s relevant that he did not like me back.
when we matched and he recognized me from school and we spent some messages catching up. oddly enough, this is the third time this has happened. once a few years ago me and my “elementary boyfriend” reconnected for a few months and a year before that someone who had a crush on me in high school.
both of these previous cases didn’t turn out ideal. i was just incompatible with one and the other pretended like we were friends for months to later ask to hookup, after i said no he was no longer as enthusiastic to hangout.
needless to say i feel a little paranoid this time.
he’s been very respectful so far which is nice. but i can’t tell if his intentions of swiping were friendly or romantic. is swooping on someone on tinder to catch up normal or?
we’re swapping playlist recommends, texting everyday etc. when i was sick for a few days and we were talking more than usual and he said he was happy he was able to keep my company? i can’t tell if im seeing signs that aren’t there or not.