My boyfriend and i moved into a Home together year and a Half ago. Things haven’t gone well. A lot of emotional abuse and issues. He has been threatening to leave for most of the time we’ve lived here. I cannot afford this house without him. He pays a small but significant portion. And I pay the rest but, unfortunately that’s my cap for rent. I also have somehow become responsible for every single bill here. He pays just the $1000 and not another bill. No utilities or anything. The entire time I pay everything and cook, clean, his laundry, pay for his phone, he brings his kids, stores stuff in the garage. 

I moved in wanting a family home and being told he did too. There was no signs of this coming. But unfortunately here we are. 

Well he’s threatened to move out January 1. But

Doesn’t want to pay December. He will stay through whole month, says I’m with him for a rent check and would consider being with me if I wouldn’t take the $1000 from him. 

I know how it sounds, I’m just fighting a one sided battle. 


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