i (22F) am a virgin and i've been sexually active with my bf for a few months, i got used to him fingering me with one finger although it was painful at first, but it still hurts a lot when he tries to put 2 fingers in. is it possible that i won't feel as much pain with his penis because it's softer and doesn't have bones like fingers? or could the pain be caused by a medical condition like vaginismus?