Me (29F) and my partner (27M) are long distance and we recently decided we wanted to try and edge for 3 weeks before I got there. It’s been glorious and the buildup is like no other. We’re both horny 24/7. The reason we did it was because I was hoping I would be able to make him cum from head (it’s never happened for him in his life). Well he told me this morning he came in his sleep by accident. He doesn’t remember it but definitely knew it happened.
Is it ruined? Are we basically back to square one? How much of it do you think is mental stimulation and buildup versus the actual physical withdrawal? I am still going to try to get him to cum with just head but I’m also trying to manage my expectations.