I’m currently angry and exhausted so I’m sorry if this doesn’t make sense
My boyfriend and I have been together for coming up to 4 years. JUST before he met me he had slept with his ex. A month into us being together he found out she was pregnant. It was agreed that she was going to get an abortion because she’s still living at her parents and my boyfriends job requires him to be away most of the week and that’s how he makes most money so he needs this job, they had both ended up getting into new relationships, but the abortion never ended up happening.
3 years later, he’s here, his ex kept the door open for him to be involved, my boyfriend is finally in a place where we live closer, he’s home more and he can be involved.
WELL. 11:30 tonight, I’m in bed and he comes into the room saying he has to go and I’m here like ??? Go where? He says his ex’s mom wanted to meet him. Right away I’m like … NOW??? It’s almost midnight. Anyway he ends up going, sends me a snap of them drinking and I’m like wtf is really happening, is he really going to meet and talk to her mom? Or did he just lie to me to go drink with her or something.
He is actually meeting up with her and her mom talking about things (he sent a video of the floor basically but the conversation sounded intense) but tell me WHY it’s after 4am and he’s STILL THERE. Not to mention her mom took his phone and texted me saying he will be home in about an hour and a half. So you’re telling me he’s coming home for 5am?? wtf is this.
Tomorrow exists, daytime exists, planning a day where you can actually sit and talk and not have to be up all hours of the night IS in fact an option.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m okay with him supporting her and being involved and him hanging out with her. It’s not my place. But hello??? Am I the only one that thinks this is insane?
UPDATE
He ended up coming home at 5:45, said they did have a serious conversation but knew he was going to come home to a shit show so he just stayed longer and they drank longer. Needless to say, I’m fucking done.