So im 27 f and i been single for YEARS. i feel like im healed, i reflected and i even went to therapy and i refuse to let my lover girl side sit down.. so some of the dates i been on and even just talking stages i got told there not ready or ill listen and they bring there ex up and stuff. My question is just why even try with someone who wants something real? Why not find some who you relate to and rebound with someone else that's not ready? ALSO honestly im pretty straight forward with my expectations and guys who have "figuring it out." Or " short term fun" and " going with the flow "try with women who clearly wants something serious? So what makes us different from the other woman who aren't taking it seriously? And if you know that why do you still persue ?