I've done some casual realtionships for purely sex but honestly it's so hard to get to that point.
The people I'm surrounded with are like afraid to make moves? For the longest time I thought I was unattractive but I recently found out that it isn't the case and people just like my personality enough that they wouldn't want to risk a friendship ending or would rather properly date me.
Like I'll go to a party and it's clear some people are attracted to me initially. I'm waiting for them to push for something (because I'm tired of being the one to ask). But they'll laugh, spend the entire night with me and even ask to meet again but casual sex isn't happening.
I just want someone to make out with me at a party it doesn't even have to go beyond that. But I'm tired of leading.
EDIT: TO BE CLEAR these are parties with friends of friends, people I kind of know, college groups I'm involved in and NOT ABSOLUTE STRANGERS. I'm also open with them about what the expectations are so if it would be a one night stand or actually a casual sexual relationship where we see each other only when we need to.