I 29(f) am married to my husband 30(m). We have been together since we were 16 & 17. Married for 7 years.
We used to go at it like rabbits (okay we were teenagers and then moved into our own place at 20) so I’m of corse we did.
We’ve been trying for a baby for 4 years, lots of doctors appts and stress ect. So I can see how that takes the spark out of our intimate life… but like I still want it.
He’s made the joke before that I’m a nympho, and maybe I am. I could jump his bones everyday multiple times if he’d let me, and when I don’t, I just take care of business myself.
He NEVER initiates, he used to back in the day, but now I guess I ask for it enough he doesn’t feel the need to.
I don’t work (long story but he’s very supportive, and we hope to finally be getting our baby soon to make me a sahm), and he works a lot, so I get he is tired when he comes home but sometimes I feel like a roommate and not a wife.
No, I haven’t “talked to him about it” because where do I even start?
“Hey I need you to give me d!ck at least 5 times a week like you used to and you BETTER like it” LIKE WHAT
Is it just me? I feel like I’m going crazy because aren’t men notoriously the sex-crazed ones?
What do I do, without hurting his feelings and telling the man who gives me the world that he’s not giving me enough.
I worry that I’m just not what he wants anymore but he’s too strong in his beliefs to every leave me, and I don’t want to feel like I’m just here because he picked me so young and now grown realizes I’m not what he wants but that im his only option because he married me.
The man hangs the moon and stars in my eyes, I can’t imagine not having him and I just am so obsessed or infatuated or in love (you chose) with him I want to jump in bed with him constantly but I don’t get the same in return from him.
So SOS what do I do. Please and thank you.