I'm 27F and he's 30M. We met three times, two of them just hanging out at his place. After the second date he told me he likes me and he deleted his dating apps because he's not interested in meeting anyone else. I was surprised to hear that because he didn't touch me or flirt with me at all. We met for the third time last night and I was hoping he would finally kiss me or make some kind of move, but… nothing.
We were sitting on his bed the whole time, drinking and watching a movie and playing video games. I tried to give him signals and I stayed for hours hoping it would eventually happen, but it finally got to be past midnight so I left. He didn't even walk me to my car or give me a hug goodbye. I realized we only hugged at the end of the last two dates because I initiated the hugs.
I broke things off over text, telling him it felt like we have a friendship dynamic, and he responded with a sad text telling me that he really liked me and hasn't met anyone like me. I'm so confused about how he could claim to like me so much but not even try to kiss me on the third date when I'm in his bed clearly wanting him to? Not even a hug goodbye??
I liked him too but it was really disappointing. I want someone who can initiate. But I can't help but wonder if I made a mistake breaking things off. Should I text him to take it back and tell him I wanted him to make a move sooner?