I'm 45m and my wife is 39f tonight we went to her friends surprise birthday party. On way home she was hungry and wanted to get food. I said what do you want? She says empanadas, I said ok no problem I'll stop and get you some but I'm not going to have any, I'll just eat when we get home.
Well all hell broke loose and she started yelling at me saying you're being so selfish, why can't you just eat what I'm eating. I said I'll stop and get you whatever you want but I don't want to eat that. I'm not sure what I want to eat but I'm definitely not in the mood for that.
She was literally yelling at me for not wanting to eat the same thing as her. Telling me you're a selfish husband and you're being difficult. Why can't you eat what I want. I said we don't have to eat the same thing and she said well I want to eat with you and why can't you just have the same thing as me?
I said I'll go there and get you food but I'm not going to eat there. In any event she said forget it and yelled at me the entire way home that I'm selfish and only think about myself because I wouldn't eat at the empanada place. Which was takeout only, so I had no problem stopping I just didn't want any. I could have got something else. Like who cares!
Is this me being selfish? Am I missing something?