I floated this idea to my gf a while back and she just said "uh you can if you want I suppose". Is this a strange/weird thing to do, or is it hot? I'm not sure if my gf is weirded out by it or if she's just letting me have my kink.
That being said I'm having 2 problems with it. If she's not into it then I'm not really going to be into it either, if she liked it then I'd be really excited to do it but if she's not and/or weirded out by it then I'd feel like a perv or something. The other problem is once I'm finished I lose the urge to do it, half because of post-nut clarity and the other half is because I'm not sure if she's into it.
From a females POV is it strange to want to do this? I feel if she's into it then post-nut clarity wouldn't affect me.
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This works for me if I sit on his face. Usually if he cums first he wants to take care of me too. I find it very sexy that he’d want to go down there right afterwards but that’s love. I’ve swallowed his load so I don’t find it that weird he’d eat it out of my cooch.
I personally think it’s kinda hot, but everyone has their own preferences. I say, since she’s given the green light, try it once and see how you both feel.
Is it strange to want to do this? Short answer – no. It’s about as “strange” as any other kink.
Some girls are super into it, some hate it, some don’t have strong feelings about it.
It sounds like your partner might have been taken a bit by surprise and doesn’t hate the idea but also isn’t super into it, which could very well be because she never considered it.
In general, we have been taught this idea that sex is over once the man ejaculates. While that certainly doesn’t have to be true, if so far you always have ended things once you cum, this probably hasn’t crossed her mind.
Honestly, I’d say try it out and see if you enjoy it for the both of you. Who knows she might end up thinking it’s super hot!
Guy here, so I can’t comment on a woman’s opinion, but I’ve done this once and she told me it was incredibly hot.
It wasn’t planned. It’s something I’ve been curious about many times, but like yourself, have always chickened out from post nut clarity, or my partner was quick to go clean up afterwards.
When I did do it, it was with a new partner who told me she liked leaving the cum in her. So after sex, we cuddled, one thing led to another, and then we’re 69’ing. That scenario overrides my post nut clarity apparently, lol.
Definitely not strange, very common at least in my experience. I personally love it, and it’s less mess afterwards.
My partner was similarly ambivalent about it at first and doesn’t really “get off” to it … but particularly when we get into a heated session, she will “threaten” that she is going to sit on my face afterwards or will grab my head and push me down.
My solution if I want to power through PNC … make sure she doesn’t orgasm first and then I “must” go down there to make sure she gets one.
First woman i ever came inside told me if I wanted to, I had to clean her up after. Of course I agreed lol but she was serious and I did it… which unlocked a new kink for me
I (66 M, lifetime monogamous) liked the idea ever since reading some letters in Penthouse about it when in college. I had done it a few times over several years. After my vasectomy, I got an urge to do it again, and oddly enough, PNC kicked in. Same thing happened the next time. I was so disappointed in and angry at myself that the next time I forced myself. That was more than 20 years ago, and since then I can’t not do it.
My wife loves oral, so she loves when I do it. If your woman loves oral, she’ll love it too. Just try it. If she doesn’t love it, don’t do it again.
By the way, I do it after intercourse and also after rubbing the opening of my penis on her clit until I come. And when she gives me oral, I have her kiss me and give me my semen back, and then I use it as a lube to give her more oral.
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I personally think it’s super hot. If I can throat kiss a guy after he’s been immersed in my juices, he can certainly lick me after making a deposit. I have a dominant streak and will demand that my partner eat out a creampie if he cums without permission.(consenting, of course) It alleviates some of the hesitation or weirdness off their shoulders, which makes it easier to swallow (no pun intended)
I enjoy it, my wife always has me eat my own
Maybe just say after “I want to go down on you” or something to that affect and see what she says…if yes then go for it….
I cum in my wife’s mouth after a blowjob and she feeds it back into my my mouth. Then I swallow it. We both find it hot AF. I love the taste of cum, so it really works for me.
Not my jam but I don’t think it’s weird. I say try it and just make sure she knows she can nope out if she’s uncomfortable, so go ahead brother, slurp up thr spent jizz lmaoooo
Why don’t you ask her if she‘s into it?
She doesn’t seem to be against it, so you could just try it and see how you both like it.
Sidenote: you’re not into it after you got off? Do you only eat her out befire you cum?
Edit: you asked for the eaten-out‘s perspective – I love it. I think it’s super hot when my bf does it.
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Just try it she might think it’s weird cause she’s never done it she might like it
Talk talk talk. Tell her your feelings. She may not be sure she’d be into it. That’s part of the conversation.
My personal experience is that my wife is fine with me wanting to do it and encourages me through sexy talk because she knows it gets me off.
The problem is, post-nut I instantly switch to “oh hell no.” 😬
We swing so, perhaps, with a trusted couple, I may do this after someone else finishes in their partner or my wife. It’s not come up with others yet as we usually have sex with others using condoms. Haven’t found that trusted couple – Yet.
So, talk to her. Not while you are having sex and the. See where it goes from there.
I’d let him but the request would surprise me.
It would be a hard no from me if my husband asked, but if a guy asked when I was younger and just sprung the question on me I might say something like what your girlfriend said because I was a people-pleaser. Things like “If you want to” “Sure, I guess” “Uhh okay” sound like a soft no to me, but you really need to talk to her and reassure her that saying no won’t result in resentment/negative outcomes in the relationship.
If your girl is turned on by swallowing your nut, then she’ll be even more turned on if you take your nut out of her juicy coochie and snowball it back into her mouth. Neither of you will be disappointed, and you will both be even more turned on than when you nutted in the first place.
So you’re curious about it and she’s willing to try. Just go for it. If you’re uncomfortable making it about the creampie itself then just focus on making her cum again. There just so happens to be your load inside her still. My partner enjoys that it doesn’t bother me. She was very apprehensive at first because she thought would be grossed out by it and then by her through association. In truth I love it. I love the way we taste together. I’ve licked my own cum off her face and tits before because it turns her on but I genuinely enjoy the way we taste mixed together.
It’s actually hot. I want that in my life.
A woman I was with would normally have five orgasms every time we were together, one with me going down on her, one more with me on top of her and then she would get on top of me and grind out three on her own, sometimes a fourth.
One time she was wearing something so sexy that I couldn’t control myself and I finished at the same time as her second.
I just said it out loud, “you’ve got two more in you I know it” and then I went down on her and she went wild. I didn’t notice anything different and I would do it with her from time to time especially if I felt like she had more rounds to go.
Just slide down her body and plant your tongue on her, if she doesn’t like it she’ll stop you.
I love doing it, but my focus in on her pleasure and finishing her and not that I just finished. Pleasure your girl, that’s the focus
Mmmmm. Yes, please. With a kiss after.
Okay really it’s all in the mix . I’ve been there and if she’s willing give it a try why not.Have a warm washcloth and a wipe if it’s too much.
I’d say to try it and see how you both feel. My gf finds the idea of it emasculating to me and therefore a turn off for her. There’s no arguing with how she feels about it so that’s it really. Your experience may differ.
Next time you have sex tell her you’re not going to hold back and just come when you feel like it. Tell her you’re going to use your mouth and fingers to get her off afterwards. She’ll be so horny.She won’t care what you’re doing.
As far as kinks go, this is pretty mild and I find it hot.