My marriage has been on the rocks this past year since my 2nd child was born. It is my husband's first. I had been venting tell my coworkers about it and they give me advice. Also in therapy and see a psychiatrist for meds. Well I ended up threatening divorce with my husband and now things are turning around. I had talked to him previously and never felt liked things were going to change. Well my husband and I had a heart to heart and things are finally changing. And it feels different this time. I got excited and told them about it in excitement. I know i might just be in the honeymoon phase and still might go back. I would have to make a decision eventually if things keep cycling. (This is my 2nd marriage) But OMG they just beat me up for finally giving them good news about how I think my marriage may work and I was excited. Lesson learned. Don't vent to people and learn to keep some things to myself. Now I feel like I can't even share good news with them only just beat me up about it. They could of just said I am happy for you and I hope it stays this way. Now I know i need to stop over sharing. 😫