Husband wants a second kid really badly. I don’t feel ready to have another child. Husband and I don’t have a great relationship. He is forever “accidentally” hurting me but I don’t believe they are accidents. I experienced an EMC a few months ago which left me feeling more depressed than ever but I was left to look after him and our toddler on my own. We said last month we’d start trying but then he “accidentally” pushed down on my neck and shoulder and sprained it trying to wake me up while calling me a whole host of names I from of our son. After that I realised I’m really not ready to bring another life into this. I told him this and went back on the pill. He told me he wasn’t going to sleep with me if I’m on the pill. But has been pestering me for sex everyday since and asking me to stop taking birth control because he wants to feel close but also “wants another baby so why not kill 2 birds with one stone?!”. I don’t feel like I’m in the wrong for taking birth control as I’m not ready but he’s pushing so much and wording stuff in such a way that I feel guilty. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this.