Me and my partner have been sexually active for a while now but for a majority of that time I have been unable to finish if we’re having penetrating sex.
For the first few times I was able to but now I can’t anymore despite it feeling good and lasting awhile. It’s no problem if we’re masturbating. I was close one time but it ended with me feeling that I couldn’t breathe.
I talked briefly with a friend about it and she pointed out that we kinda just have penetrating sex if we’re both drunk and that it could be a reason why. Because we only kinda have it whilst being drunk I never feel fully comfortable talking about all this.
I now feel a bit stressed and anxious just thinking of sex but at the same time that I want to have it.