Straight guy here, curious about an experience?
Hi everyone, I’ve been reflecting on an experience I had in my late teens/early twenties, and I’m curious about perspectives. I was with a woman who later identified as a lesbian. During our time together, she was very engaged sexually, responsive, vocal, and seemed to genuinely enjoy penetrative sex. We also experimented with different positions and frequency, we had a lot of sex (like a freaking lot).
She came out to me during the relationship and we broke up, but then she kept coming back to me and having sex with me. I eventually stopped the sex since I figured she had a girlfriend. Really, I always felt she liked the sex we had. She told me as much, but I was always left scratching my head…
I’m not trying to question anyone’s orientation or be disrespectful; I just want to understand how someone can enjoy that type of sexual experience while identifying as a lesbian. Is this a matter of sexual fluidity, or are there other explanations?
I appreciate thoughtful, respectful insights.