I’m a cis woman and I’ve found that I cannot orgasm on my own, either through manual stimulation or a vibrator. However, I am able to finish when a partner is using their hands or through oral.
I’m not going to lie, it is beyond frustrating to have to rely on someone else for sexual gratification/tension release. When I go through long periods of single-dom or in long distance, I feel like I’m going stir crazy. Even if I don’t want a sexual partner, there’s this internal pressure that I need one to experience something everyone else can feel alone.
Does anyone else experience this? I’ve heard of many women having the opposite problem but I have looked up and down on this issue and haven’t found anything so far. I kinda just feel broken.
I’ve wanted to try different vibrators to see if they’d help, but I also don’t want to drop that kind of money on something that does nothing for me.