I have someone and we get along great and have seem to like one another outside of the bedroom.. but when we go to have sex, it's not 100% hard or not hard at all and, more recently, he can't cum. I have been confident that I wasn't the issue, but it's occurring more often. I like him and was keen to see him again but now I don't know how to navigate or if I should move on. Confidence is shot. Does this generally happen when you like a woman? You would think he would be excited if so?