This is making me feel like a bad person and was hoping I could get some advice. I have a partner and he has a troubling past with his family. Lost his dad young and mother as an adult when she took her life. She was battling severe depression/manic disorders and she was very verbally abusive and manipulative to her kids once dad was gone. He has a very dysfunctional relationship with his siblings as adults as they all went through a lot growing up in the unstable home. He has done a lot of work to get to a good place and he’s extremely successful but something in me doesn’t want to take his last name when we get married. I love my last name and I’ve never really been that attached to it but I feel like I am not wanting to take his last name maybe because of his family’s past… Is that crazy/wrong? I also know it will hurt him if I don’t take his name… He has kind of voiced this in the past.