So this last night I filled in last minute as a fiddle player for a band. I didn’t really know anyone there, but the lead singer (she’s 24, I’m 22) was super cool and honestly… really pretty.
We didn’t get much time to talk, but she really loved my playing and kept complimenting me throughout the night. The vibe felt good, but I also don’t want to make things weird professionally or come off too strong.
I’d like to ask her out in a simple, respectful way. Maybe something like grabbing coffee or checking out a local show together. But I’m not sure what’s the smoothest way to bridge that gap without being awkward.
Musicians of Reddit (or anyone really): what’s a good way to ask someone out that you met through a gig like this? And how do I keep it from feeling like I’m mixing business with romance?
Only difference music is not my profession I work at a Hospital, and her friends seem to like me. They all asked for my instagram at the end of the night!