Okay so I’ve been talking to this guy on and off for the past like 8 months. We started talking long distance… met over snap lol. He took me out multiple times when we finally got the chance to hang out, and I literally stayyyy turned on because he treats me so well. I’m not asking how to initiate fucking (unlessss ? 😛🤣). Here’s the thing: he’s such a “gentleman” (I put that in quotes cause even when a guy is a gentleman, you can read how he’s feelings and I definitely feel the same way… turned on lol) that he won’t make any moves on me. The last time we hung out I decided to kiss him on the cheek while we were talking, then it got all weird and sensual but no make outs or anything we just sat on the couch and watched a movie and kinda cuddled. And when he left my house he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek, too. So it kinda feels like I’m leading and he’s just following so he doesn’t make me uncomfortable?? But I don’t wanna feel like I’m rushing things and putting in all the work or seeming desperate. But how do I get it to where we’re kissing or making out? I go back down to see him in about a month, and yeah I don’t wanna rush it but there’s only so much time to do shit and then we go months without seeing each other again. So I do kinda wanna get things rolling, as I really like him and wanna make sure the water’s warm.