My girlfriend (23 f), and I (21 F) , have been dating for about 4 months now. We get along super well and we already told each other we love one another. We hang out every weekend, sometimes two days in a row. Actually, most weekends twice in a row. like ill either sleep over at hers or she'll come over to mine.
During the week she works a 9-5, she does science stuff in a lab but nothing that exerts crazy energy besides standing sometimes. it's very lax so she could come in at 7am or 9:30 and leave early if she wants to, as long as she hits her daily hours.
During the work week I miss her so much, we only see each other once IF THAT and we basically NEVER call. okay… but hers the kicker, shell hang out with a different friend every day after work, like literally every day we don't hang out, she's with someone. It's not that she has friends that upsets me, i loveeee that she has friends, it just hurts bc i want to SEE her more/CALL her and i know shed never lie about being too tired to hang/call but it still hurts. Like sometimes ill want to call but im too scared to ask because i have a fear of rejection and i always feel like she'll say she's tired and cant because she was out with friends. Am i being dramatic? is it selfish to ask for more time with her during the week when its still so early and she has a lot of people in her life she wants to make time for. We typical see each other like 3 days a week unless something important comes up. Even having more calls with her would help with this feelingggg. do i say something???