I explained to him that ideally we shouldn’t buy if we were gonna be intimate we have to be really careful, he can’t finish inside because I am new to birth control and it is not yet effective (it takes 7 days). He said he understood.
We got intimate and just as he was about to finish he asked me do you want me to finish inside you? I was kind of shocked in the moment hearing that my brain was still trying to process why he would ask me that so I didn’t respond (I feel like he asked to pressure me to change my mind in the moment) but he just decided to finish inside me anyway.