This is really bothering me, and scaring me.
Idk how to socialize normally. Im often too goofy, not serious enough, or play around too much, or I shut down completely and become antisocial.
I can be serious in serious situations, when it calls for it. I dont misinterpret these situations. But I think I fail to know if my personality is getting annoying.
My girlfriend just told me that my personality was getting annoying, and I get it, because on self reflection, I feel I wasnt taking anything serious. But now that she told me that, idk how to act, or what to do or to say.
Ive rarely socialized with people these past 10 years, so Im in a new realm. I want this to work, but I fear im not doing it right.
Any advice?