It started about 2 1/2 weeks ago or so. The flirting has pretty much stopped. We still talk everyday but there has been a slight decrease in communications. I first bought this to her intention about 10 days ago. She attributed to work stress, her friend coming into town, and a serious of "little things" that have happened. We have had a few talks about this. She is aware that there is a problem. We last talked about this last night. For a second she tried to give me the its not you line. However, i giggled and said oh no that line. She agreed that it was kind of funny and we both laughed. She keeps saying that was mostly work stressed but then vaguely admitted that she knows i may think its more of an excuse. Coincidentally our birthdays are a few days apart and is coming up soon. I asked her what she wanted to do and she left a long message ( she rambles a bunch) and basically said she doesnt know.
Im trying not let this drag out if there has been a change. Talks havent really revealed a bunch. Although last night she did bring up a possible compatibility issue. One thing i talked to her from the start is that im a bit homebodish and people who are constantly on the go/run probably wouldnt be a good match. I mentioned this to her super early on. She claimed that she didnt run around a bunch. Although ive noticed its the opposite. She then claimed that it was just a spike in activity. Besides that she says she doesnt know what the problem is other than work stress, etc. That she hopes that things will be back to normal. Last night i thought about telling that im kind of almost giving up on this but just held off. Im thinking about giving this another week before breaking things off. If anyone has any advice or suggestions because i have a feeling that im just wasting time here…Thanks..