My girlfriend’s mother bought plane tickets for both of us to visit her family in Virginia for Thanksgiving. This would’ve been my first time meeting them, and I was genuinely excited.
A few days after the tickets were booked, my girlfriend and I had a disagreement about something related to her sorority process. She left my apartment upset and we didn’t speak for several hours. We made up the next day, but the following morning she told me she had cancelled my flight during the argument.
She didn’t pay for the ticket herself, and her family already knew I was supposed to come. She still hasn’t talked to her mom or anyone about what happened, so I don’t know if I’m still expected to come or if her family plans to rebook anything. I don’t want to pressure anyone or make assumptions, but the situation left me confused and disappointed.
I’m trying to approach this maturely, but I’m not sure how to communicate my feelings to her or how to move forward when the plans changed so suddenly.
How should I handle this conversation with her, and should I still go if the family decides to rebook the ticket?
TL;DR: My girlfriend cancelled my Thanksgiving flight that her mom bought during an argument, hasn’t talked to her family about it yet, and now I’m unsure how to move forward or whether I should still go.