This was the second date with this person. I feel comfortable around him and as the drinks kept flowing we kissed and he would get real touchy. At first i was okay with it but then literally for the rest of the night, as we were sitting at the bar, he literally would not move his hand from my ass. I kept moving around to try to make it harder for him. But he kept up. He also kept groping for my boobs which was wild to me. I kept batting his hands away and i even told him to stop as i laughed it off and got embarrassed. And i know now that the reason i didn’t attest is because the conversations were going well and everything else was fun. I got into my head and told myself that he’d get my “signals” obviously not. The weird part about this is that we were JUST having a convo about how we both like to pace ourselves and he respects mine. It just felt objectifying and i started feeling weird about it. Y’all with the ass groping It literally did not stop it was super weird. When i woke up the next morning i texted him a thoughtful message with a boundary laid down. Told him it’s not a massive deal breaker but i just need him to slow down. Otherwise we have a fun connection and he’s easy to talk to. Presents as having aligned morals with mine etc.
Why is it that when most men claim to be something they end up not being that thing? Lolz
Would you go out with this man after having this kind of experience?