What are your pre-sex rituals? Examples include perfume placement, does anyone use coconut oil, etc.


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  3. Quick rinse in the shower or at least a wipe down there. If I’ve got more time or anticipate sex, I’ll use scented body oil all over (love so much since it soaks into skin quick), perfume oil/perfume on my neck, stomach, and thighs, brush my teeth (and tongue ;)). I also make sure I am well hydrated!

    My man loves a natural bush so I regularly rub argon oil through my pubic hair so it’s softer. I’ll do a few drops before sex too, since it smells nice!

  4. Shower. Sometimes shave my legs if it’s needed. Make my hair and makeup nice. Pick out Lingerie.

    Otherwise nothing much at all, get in bed together.

  6. I don’t prepare necessarily but I do find reading something that gets me in the mood or meditating does the trick – touch etc feels a lot more intense to me after I’ve spent some time ‘being present’

  11. It’s been years but I would have my everything shower. Shave everything, exfoliate, quick pedicure, lotion and body butter, then perfume. I also did enemas just in case

  13. Lol not much really. I used to be regularly waxed or shaved so I was ready any time, but I don’t do that so much anymore. If there’s time, I go to the toilet and make sure I’ve wiped both holes thoroughly, but that’s about it.

  16. shower if i stink or we’re goin downtown on each other… lotion, essential oils, deoderant, floss brush put hair up.

  17. Are we talking long term or short term, bc I believe pretty much everything we do is to “prepare for sex.” 😂

  19. Depends on the day/time/vibe. If we’re being deliberate there’s a good amount of “set up,” if you know what I mean… plus outfits etc. But usually it’s just a shower and maybe nice underwear, and sometimes it’s quite spontaneous and there’s no prep at all.

  20. Look over at Mr. WineAndDogs2020 and raise my eyebrows while making a hum sound that goes up in tone like when asking a question.

  28. Ask “you wanna?” Wait for a “yes” answer, get naked, get the waterproof blanket. Ready.

  30. I have a shoe box of toys just under my nightstand with new batteries, a couple of different types of lube (if I need it), a soft hand towel, and a deck of cards with different activities we can try at random.
    Shower, shave, moisturize, hair, make-up, sexy negligee, clean sheets (made bed), sexy music, and a scarf over the lamp for mood lighting. Oh, and a small bottle of Hershey’s chocolate syrup, to improve the taste of things when events turn oral, that or real honey.

    And yes, I do and have used coconut oil.

  37. I exist. If he wants it he can get it whenever. I prefer to be showered but if he doesn’t care neither do I. The only thing I need is love

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