IM20” dating “21 F”over a year now, 4 months back transition into long distance. Now we still continue strong as they go by. I feel that I did not feel the fire the same way as we had when we began dating, but she is madly in love with me.
She is a quiet girl without any friend circle and all her life was around me, even me not being in the state. whereas I am a person with a large friend group mostly consisting of boys who is quite low maintenance and likes to chill by himself.
Now as days, go by, so I feel guilty every day, and it eats me from within that this girl were no longer have the same spark for as I did, before is devoting all the time and energy towards me, and I’m not devoting back to her, but I still do like her but not with the same intensity as she does to me.
Now now a long distance has been going very smoothly for quite a long time without any fights, and that is mainly because of her adjustment and I feel I am Hardly participating in this relationship and she’s making this ship sail. And I am mostly in it because it’s quite convenient for me at the same time. I have tried to hint it out once or twice as well as been trying to tell her that if she feels, I’m not doing enough, she can always go out and explore, but she chooses to stick by me and choose me. I have even tried telling I am a person of low energy and dont have much love to give out still, she wishes to choose me and be with me.
She is so nice that I have been given no reason to end this relationship. Despite me trying to tell her give her hands, she does not wish to end this.
No, am I the bad person for continuing with this?