I (27F) treated myself to nice dinner to celebrate! 🎉 Not my preferred situation but I’d rather be sexless than feel like I’m being taken advantage of ever again. Hopefully I can use this time to focus on career growth and hobbies ☺️
I’m pretty used to solo dining, travel and things of that sort so as I get used to also no longer being intimate (this isn’t my first rodeo… this is the third time I’ve made it to a year with no sex), hopefully I’ll meet someone who makes me feel something. Until then… welp, wish me luck lol
Edit: I want to add that this is typically around the time I’ve become discouraged in my previous attempts to stay abstinent until the right man came along. Especially with it being holiday season, you start to just want ANYONE for the sake of feeling wanted. With that being said, I’m trying to change my perspective this time and do things like celebrate it as an accomplishment, not a jail sentence.