I’ve been dating a lady and we’ve been out on coming up 5 dates now. She came over Monday I made her dinner we played board games and we had a great time! She also invited me to her work holiday party coming up next month. I have spent time with her parents as well, and her parents know my name since her dad briefly came and said hi while she was coming into my apartment.

I have a fifth date with her this Sunday. I was thinking of having “the talk” with her then or at least see what she’s looking for in the future. I’m wondering if this date would be a good time to have that conversation. I also need to bring up how frequent we should see/text each other because I text her every couple days mostly just to set up/confirm dates and do all of the talking in person (I did wish her a happy birthday over text and check in once in a while). I don't want to bring it up too soon, but I do really like her, and do not want to wait too long either. We have been meeting for dates so far once every 5-7 days or so, but there is a shorter time between this date and the last one compared to the past. She also kissed me for the first time on Monday (I have not kissed her, I was waiting for her to make the move).


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