I don’t know what to do at this point. I’m tired of just getting lead on by men. I’m 24(f) btw. I’ve moved to a new state and have started trying online dating again. I gave up on it a little while back, but have again downloaded it, this time I did one over never used. One of the first guys that message on me that’s my age on there. He asked me out on a date the next night, so we go to a local restaurant. We talked for 90% of the date and it went really well. So well he invited me to go with him and his friends out, so I said yes. We talked again almost all night and had a lot of fun, or so I thought. I could tell he wasn’t as interested after that night because he would leave me on delivered for hours compared to when he would text me quit a bit. So I finally asked him if he wanted to go out. And he said he would love too. I thought ok maybe I was wrong, but lo and behold he messaged me back hours later telling me he is not interested in me and it really hurt honestly. I have never really connected with a guy like that and had a man actually treat me well during a date, keep a conversation flowing and just be a straight up gentleman. I don’t know where things went wrong. He was the first guy that I have been on a date with in a long time that I felt, something could’ve been there.
I hate to rant, but it just honestly makes me feel horrible about myself. I don’t know why it’s just hard to date now a days imo. I know being rejected shouldn’t be this big of a blow, but I don’t know and I know I’m in my early 20s, but it just makes me feel hopeless at times. Sorry again for the rant.