So… im 35(f) next week. Never married. No children. Just me. Single.
As I get closer to 35, I find it difficult to acknowledge im not likely to have a family.
I have tried dating and its horrible. Thing is I don't want to date. I want a husband to go home too cook dinner and cuddle while watching jurassic park or the matrix.
The attitude I get from men is unhelpful, they seem judgy like I wasted my 20s… when in reality I had very significant health problems and didn't think I could have children. Which led to the separation of a 5 year relationship as he wanted kids, which i didn't think I could give him, so we went our separate ways.
I found out at 32 this wasn't the case and that i can have children. Its been heartbreaking.
I simply can't find a man who wants the responsibility of being a father.
Meanwhile I have every fuvk boy or creepo trying to be 'friends' hoping one day they will get lucky… with absolutely no regard for my long term wellbeing. Its so exhausting they constantly wanting your time and energy as tho they are entitled to it.
I refuse to go on apps.
Men have abandoned their duty and want sex without the consequences or blessings that come from it.
Im absolutely gutted.
Any advice on how to find someone?