I (36F) have been dating (38M) for more or less a month now, we have been going on more or less 4-5 dates. It was always fun, and after a date he always confirmed through text he liked it, too. About the last date: he had previously cancelled it because it fitted better in his schedule to meet during a weekend instead of during the week. He rescheduled it immediately and the date then happened in a weekend and it was fun, even kissed at the end for the second time (no sexual contact for the rest). I realised I liked the guy. He asked for a new date, we planned it one week later, but the same day he called me in the afternoon that he was very sorry to cancel again because he promised an old friend (female) to go for dinner, and he rescheduled our date to the next day (still needs to happen tomorrow). He apologised profusely and said he was looking forward to tomorrow meeting each other. Up until now he has always taken the initiative to arrange new dates. But I can't shake the feeling that tonight's cancellation is at least a bit weird: he actually honestly told me he preferred to go for dinner with another friend (although he immediately arranged a new date for tomorrow). Not sure what to think about this? My gut feeling says he might not be that into me… I would never do that at this point (texting is btw very limited between us, it's mostly one per day, mostly because it takes him hours to respond, but ok, he has always been consistent in replying and arranging new dates). Not sure if I should still see him or better make up my mind and cancel it all together? Am a bit afraid that I will get hurt soon…


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