We’ve been together for about a month or two and I made the mistake of asking the forbidden question about size and whether she’s been with someone bigger. She was honest and said one of her exes definitely was. The conversation went on and she mentioned that he was a cheater so it doesn’t matter anyway, but she also said that maybe none of the girls after him stayed because it was too much.
For context, I’m around 6.3 inches, basically the length of an iPhone 14 Pro Max (don’t ask). I’ve always been told I have good girth and I’ve never felt insecure or lacking in that department based on past experiences.
Then out of nowhere she made a comment about my dad, saying, “But your dad, he was a cheater too, and he didn’t have good d***.”
I’ve never met my dad. She knows the full story and everything I’ve shared about that situation. So hearing her randomly bring him up like that threw me off. The only way that line makes sense is if she was implying that I don’t have good d*** either, a like father like son type thing…
When she saw my reaction she immediately tried to backtrack and said that’s not what she meant. And it was odd because she usually seems to be enjoying sex with me and she tells me that she loves having sex with me etc. She’s a Latin immigrant with good but somewhat broken English, so maybe it was a weird phrasing issue. But honestly, I think she knew what she was saying and just slipped up. I’m feeling super conflicted about this whole thing because it was me that engaged that conversation but didn’t expect her to say something like that. I’m not sure where to go from here. Was she basically saying that she doesn’t enjoy sex with me?
TLDR; Asked my GF about penis size and if she’s had bigger. She said yes but he was a cheater. She later made a comment about my dad, that I’ve never really talked to, saying “your dad was a cheater too and he probably didn’t have good d***.” I assume she’s implying I don’t.