I've been with my fiancé for 7 and a half years and he just asked if he should leave.
A couple of weeks ago I went to the doctor because my neck was hurting and I found out that I have 4 herniated disc's.
I've either been experiencing extreme pain or am a zombie from the medication I've been taking for the pain. On top of that I work fulltime, have 4 kids, and I'm enrolled in my final class I need to get my AA.
My fiancé is upset because he feels neglected and I haven't been spending time with him, and he even asked me to apologize for making him put up with me through all of this. He asked me where his fiancé went and if he should just leave because I'm not the same and if she's gone, maybe he should leave too.
Is there anyway for me to explain that I'm not being distant on purpose, I just physically can't do anything more than what's necessary right now?