After months of dead bedroom and generally being disconnected from each other, we started seeing a counselor…I wrote my wife a letter stating how much she meant to me, how much I loved her, what I needed from her both in and outside the bedroom, and asking her to help me understand what she needed from me. That I wanted to travel this road of life together and we could find a way. She said she wanted to respond to it but needed time to compose her thoughts. Friday while I was at work she packed up and moved out. I came home and she had left me. I called her and she read me her response of how everything was my fault and she had to leave for her own happiness. I am devastated, I’m wandering around an even lonelier house than I had had before.
I begged her to come back and we could work it out…but she wants a divorce and just like that she’s gone forever.