I couldn’t do it anymore. I was crying every week. We had only been together since April. I was unsure of things when he proposed to me a month ago. I thought the proposal would mean that he was going to be more serious & a team player with me. I was wrong. The threats of breaking up whenever we got in an argument or disagreement kept going. That was what killed me the most. I would chase after him after most of those times and try to make things right. I told him if he did it one more time I would leave. He threatened to break up with me yesterday morning after we got in a small disagreement and I decided to leave him right then and there. There were many other things that happened that caused me to have doubts. I did love him, but I felt so miserable and trapped. I’m on day 1.
I broke down today and asked him about exchanging belongings. He said that I chose this end to our relationship. When that wasn’t the case. I felt forced into this decision.
Was I valid?