We've been together for a little over a year now and very little has changed since the start of the relationship. She does not work and she does not drive – both of which were discussed when we started dating and she said it was something she'd work on.
She held a job for a few months during the relationship, but quit. She's had interviews with other places, but that's not where my problem lies. We go through the same old routine where I pick her up every week, take her home after a few days, rinse and repeat.
I've had numerous discussions with her about helping out more when she's here, and she does sometimes, but it doesn't stick. She has taken no steps towards getting her driver's license after I helped her get her physical. despite being spoken to multiple times about it. At the end of the day I'm pretty sure she's just not a responsible adult and this is something that affects me greatly, it's depressing and I'm considering ending the relationship over it.
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TL;DR: She's been doing nothing with her life since we got together, is this a lost cause?