Hey everyone,
I met a few girls at a Halloween party recently. we had good conversations, got along well, and I even got their numbers. But I realized something: my conversations tend to stay too normal. You know, the usual small talk . “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”, “What do you like about the city?”, hobbies, etc, etc.
What I’m really struggling with is creating that flirty or playful vibe. I don’t want to come across as just another friendly guy having surface-level chats. I want to build more spark and attraction in my conversations.
Any tips on how to naturally steer things in a flirty direction?
What kind of topics or tone help make that happen without sounding forced or creepy?
If any women want to share what kinds of things guys say or do (in convo or text) that make you feel that flirty chemistry. I’d really appreciate your perspective.