I’m a guy in my mid40s, getting back into dating after a long marriage, and I’m trying to understand something.
A lot of women’s profiles say “looking for a serious relationship.” But when we match, it often feels like there’s very little effort put into actually getting to know me or meeting up in person. Conversations fade out quickly, or plans never seem to materialize.I’m not saying this in a blaming way, I know men can be flaky too. I just want to understand from your perspective.
What does “looking for something serious” mean to you, and what does effort look like on your side?
Is there something I might be missing about how women approach dating apps today?
I’m genuinely trying to learn, so open to honest thoughts.